Some relationship has moments of uncertainty when staying or parting ways feels like a tough choice
These moments can feel overwhelming, but you don’t have to navigate them alone. Discernment Counseling offers a compassionate and structured process to help couples gain clarity and make thoughtful decisions about their future.
On the brink of separation? Or still hoping to rebuild your connection? We're here to help identify where you're at and find ways to move forward through our decision-based therapy approach for couples
What Is Discernment Counseling?
Discernment Counseling is designed for couples where one partner is unsure about continuing the relationship, and the other is committed to saving it. Unlike traditional couples therapy, which focuses on resolving relationship problems, Discernment Counseling helps you decide the best path forward: staying together, pursuing divorce, or committing to couples therapy to work on the relationship.
This process isn’t about finding quick fixes—it’s about understanding your relationship’s dynamics, your individual needs, and the possibilities for your future together.
Who Is Discernment Counseling For?
Discernment Counseling is particularly beneficial if:
One partner is uncertain about the relationship while the other wants to work on it.
There is ambivalence about staying together, and you want to explore your options before making permanent decisions.
You’re looking for clarity rather than immediately diving into traditional therapy or separation.
However, this approach may not be suitable if:
One partner has already made a firm decision to end the relationship.
There is ongoing domestic violence or abusive behavior.
Both partners are unwilling to engage in the process.
How Discernment Counseling Works
Discernment Counseling is a short-term process, typically lasting one to five sessions, depending on your needs. Each session is structured to ensure both partners feel heard and understood while exploring options for the future.
1. Initial Session
The first meeting provides an opportunity for both partners to share their perspectives and goals. Your therapist will guide you through discussing your relationship history, current challenges, and hopes for the future.
2. Individual and Joint Time
Each session includes a mix of joint conversations and one-on-one time with the counselor. This ensures that both partners have a chance to voice their feelings openly and gain clarity about their own needs.
3. Exploring Three Paths
During the sessions, you’ll explore three potential directions for your relationship:
- Status Quo: Taking no immediate action while reflecting on the current state of the relationship.
- Separation: Making a thoughtful decision to end the relationship.
- Reconciliation: Committing to couples therapy to rebuild and strengthen the relationship.
4. Informed Decision-Making
By the end of the process, the goal is to reach a clear understanding of what’s best for both partners, whether that’s parting ways or working toward reconciliation.
Why Choose Discernment Counseling at The Relationship Place
If you appreciate straightforward, honest communication done by experts, that’s exactly what you’ll find at The Relationship Place. We provide a judgment-free space where you and your partner can explore your options with guidance from skilled therapists.
Compassionate Expertise
Our therapists are trained in evidence-based methods to help you navigate tough decisions with clarity and empathy.
Tailored Support
We recognize that every relationship is unique, and our approach is personalized to meet your specific needs.
Flexible Options
With telehealth services, couples across Texas can access Discernment Counseling from the comfort of their own homes.
The Role of Telehealth in Discernment Counseling
Life can be fast-paced, but that shouldn’t prevent you from accessing the support you need. Telehealth provides a convenient, secure option for couples who prefer to engage in counseling from home.
Convenient Access
No matter where you are, telehealth brings therapy to you, making support easily accessible.
Privacy and Comfort
It makes discussing sensitive topics more comfortable in a familiar environment without the stress of commuting
Flexibility
Telehealth lets you easily fit exclusive therapy sessions into your busy schedule, at your most convenient time.
Take the First Step Toward Clarity
If your relationship is at a crossroads, Discernment Counseling can help you navigate this pivotal moment with confidence and understanding. Whether you’re leaning toward reconciliation or considering separation, our team at The Relationship Place is here to support you every step of the way.
Contact us today to schedule your first session and begin the process of finding clarity for your future.
